 February is a great time to show love to the foster or adoptive family you support. God showed his love by sending his one and only Son into the world so that we might live through him (1 John 4:9). As our Father showed His great love in action, through Jesus, we too can say, “ I love you" through our actions! Try some of these fun and meaningful ways to say, “I love you!” For Parents
For a Child
It makes such a difference for foster and adoptive families to know they have a caring support team around them! Anytime is the perfect time to say "I love you" by doing something thoughtful to show your support!
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Plans can change but my love for them doesn’t, and the kids and bio mom know that. - Jeannie Lewis, Foster Mom for Teens  After the residential facility that Jeannie Lewis directed closed, she and her husband, Russel, recently retired from law enforcement, knew they had to do something. There weren’t many local options for youth, especially teens with hard behaviors, so Jeannie and Russel decided they’d learn more about foster care. With the love and support of their four adult children, three years later, the Lewis family has fostered 7 children, one of whom they’ve adopted and a second with adoption in the near future.
In our recent Q&A with foster parent Jeannie Lewis, she shares some of the trials and triumphs experienced while fostering teens and gives us a glimpse into the hope and heartache of reunification. Q: What led you to foster care? A: I was the director of a residential youth facility and many of the youth there had hard behaviors that made it challenging to step them down into foster families. The center closed, and I knew there wasn’t any place for these kids to go. My husband and I attended a Project 1.27 Info Night and we’ve been foster parents for three years. Q: What are some of the challenges you’ve experienced as a foster parent? A: Self care is key. Especially the first year. Plan respite. Plan breaks. Parenting is hard. Parenting teens is hard. You have to be careful you don’t get sucked into secondary trauma. Sometimes teens come into a foster home having experienced fourteen or fifteen years of trauma; that’s exponential. I have to check my own anxiety level to make sure I’m the level-headed one in the room. I’m the one who can self-regulate.   January is a great time to make a resolution that will provide ongoing support, encouragement and care to the foster or adoptive family you serve. Resolve to pray for your family daily, check in with them regularly and offer a unique & COVID friendly gift of support every month of the coming year! Use our list or create one that fits the unique needs of the family you support!
COVID restrictions meant Mesa County DHS, businesses, churches and Project 1.27 staff had to get creative for the 2020 Foster, Kinship and Adoptive Family Christmas Party! Working together, they pulled off a Progressive Christmas Party that drew rave reviews from the 76 families - 220 children and 161 adults- who participated in the holiday fun.
Children received books from the NEWLA Book Drive (in honor Nuala Lewis), craft supplies, Bombas Socks, new gloves, cookies, Pringles, Sprite, candy and treat-filled stockings. Adults were blessed with frozen meals, gloves and other goodies! Families enjoyed caroling, a live nativity and beautiful holiday decorations at each stop along with participating in a Christmas Car Scavenger Hunt. Thank you to Mesa County Department of Human Services, Famous Footwear, Ticket to Dream Foundation, Appleton Christian Church, Connection Church, First Baptist Church, River City Church, First Presbyterian Church, Jubilee Family Church, Central Orchard Mesa Church, Katie Peterson of NEWLA Book Drive and Project 1.27 staff (and their families) for supporting and loving every family and child! Hey there.Thank you for the love and hard work you all put into this. It was definitely a different but fun experience. You guys are wonderful. Thank you. - Amanda Hey there! I was wondering if you could help me with something. :). Would it be possible to get the recipes for the chicken and rice soup that came from the church on East Orchard Mesa? It has been the biggest food hit with my daughter and she is PICKY. - Jenn Marie 12 Days of Christmas Stops!
Chicken and Brown Rice Soup Author Mavis Butterfield (With Lisa McGinnet’s exclusions/additions) Ingredients 8 Pounds Chicken , cooked and shredded 4 Cups Frozen Corn 8 Heaping tablespoons Concentrated Chicken Stock Base 4 Cups Brown Rice {uncooked} 8 teaspoons dried thyme 4 teaspoons ground pepper 4 teaspoons salt 8 1 gallon sized freezer bags Instructions Fill each bag with the following: 1 Pound Chicken, cooked and shredded 1/2 cup Frozen Corn 1 Heaping tablespoon Concentrated Chicken Stock Base 1/2 cup Jasmine Rice {uncooked} 1 teaspoon dried thyme 1/2 teaspoon ground pepper 1/2 teaspoon salt After filling the bags, label, date and zip them closed before tossing them into the freezer. Empty contents of the chicken soup mix into a crock pot or into a stock pot, add 5 cups of water and cook on low until the soup is warm and the rice is soft. {About 2 hours in the crock pot or 30 minutes on the stove top}.  2020 has been a challenging year for everyone, and many challenges remain ahead. For foster families and children, managing day to day life in combination with navigating the complexities of a child welfare case under the umbrella of a pandemic leaves them weary, stretched thin, and exhausted. There is always value in reaching out and asking for help, however, sometimes families may not be aware of the help they need or take time to ask. As we approach the holiday season in a hard year, perhaps one of the most meaningful ways you can honor the generosity and care that often characterizes Christmas is to proactively see and meet the needs of your foster or adoptive family. See a need for caregiver self-care? Self care requires a lot of creativity right now, as many typical outlets are not available. Do you have an hour or two you could set aside every month to be a resource to the family for whatever they need? For example, you could offer two hours of childcare on the first Sunday of every month while the foster parents take time to fill their cup with a favorite self-care activity. See a need for resources? Before running your errands, ask your foster family what you can pick up for them. Organize a small grocery delivery with pantry staples and favorite snacks. Offer to pick up any prescriptions the child may have, or order a delivery of diapers and wipes. The possibilities for tangible ways to take one thing off a family’s plate are endless! See a need for connection? With so many families struggling to keep their heads above water while managing a myriad of daily tasks and responsibilities, isolation is occuring. Does your family need a lifeline of connection thrown their way? Host a Christmas Light Scavenger Hunt around the neighborhood with hot chocolate in hand, exchange Christmas cards with meaningful and encouraging notes attached, or send a quick text to tell the family you prayed over them.reminds the family that they are not alone.
See an opportunity to offer your talents? Do you have a keen eye for photography? Take some updated family portraits. Do you have a background in teaching? Tutor a child or help them with virtual school. Are you crafty? Put together activity kits to help keep the kids occupied. Think about the things you love and are good at, and offer those to the foster family. See an opportunity to offer your time? Families have more time together than ever, and while that is a gift, the absence of childcare and normal social support leaves caregivers wearing too many hats. Perhaps you could keep the child busy by offering to play a virtual game together, tuning in to one of the many webcam experiences offered by zoos, museums, performing arts, or taking the child out for a walk around the park. This will give parents a few moments to regroup and organize the household. See an opportunity to celebrate? Christmas is still the perfect time to spread joy and cheer. Grabbing a coffee? Send your foster family a text asking for their coffee order. Host a multi-family door-decorating competition and decorate each other’s front doors. Share pictures of each other’s Christmas trees and favorite ornaments. Organize a Christmas book swap and exchange your favorite holiday classics. Surprise decorate a family’s front lawn. Go out of your way to show kindness and thoughtful gestures; they mean more now than ever!  What a year this has been! The holidays will be here before we know it. While we hope all families experience a time of celebration and joy, even during this difficult season, the holidays can be a difficult time for foster and adoptive children. The holidays tend to bring up many triggers, questions and tough emotions for children to navigate. Below are some ideas for supporting children during this time.
 September 1, 2020, while a slew of friends and family waited in the courthouse parking lot because of COVID regulations, Julie and David finalized the adoption of brothers, Zayden and Nixxin. It was a day to celebrate. And to grieve.
Not everyone understands how grief mingles with joy at an adoption. Fortunately, David and Julie do. They’ve been helping Zayden grieve for almost a year, ever since it was determined he and his little brother couldn’t safely return to their biological mom. “In the courtroom, Zayden put on a good face, but he was still sad,” shares Julie. “We let him be sad, even as we shared how glad we were to have him as part of our family.” The boys’ safety, well-being and adoption into a loving family are things to be celebrated, and at the same time, it is important to acknowledge the huge loss. With the help of David and Julie, later that evening, Zayden was able to celebrate and had lots of fun with his friends. The Back Story Adopted at birth, Julie always sensed God drawing her towards adoption. When she met David and they started talking about fostering and adopting, Julie thought, “Maybe this is the right guy for me!” After attending a Project 1.27 Info Night in 2017, Julie asked, “David, how serious about this are you?” Dave having heard during Info Night that a couple needed to be on the same page responded, “If you are on board, I’m on board!”
...Even during a pandemic!
In November, churches across the U.S. have typically focused on caring for the vulnerable children in foster care. 2020 isn’t a typical year, but there are ways churches can engage the congregation using resources for Stand Sunday (Nov. 8) and National Adoption month (all November). During this pandemic, the stress on already fragile families is intense. History shows that when just unemployment increases, there’s an increase of children coming into foster care. Add in a limited access to mental health and substance abuse treatment and isolation at home and it becomes clear that Not every child has been safer at home. In 2020, there are- Not enough adoptive families for waiting children! Not enough foster families, especially for siblings and older children in foster care Not enough support for at-risk, foster and adoptive families Use these virtual (or in-person) resources to engage your congregation in ministry to vulnerable children and families in your community. PROJECT 1.27 VIDEOS & RESOURCES:
 What do you do when you pray, plan and prepare for a Foster Care Awareness Night at your church
and nobody comes? Pray. Schedule monthly Foster Care Awareness Nights. Keep foster care on display. Watch God at work-
That’s not the kind of thing you’d expect to see at church during a pandemic. And then there’s God! Julie and Jon Stephens were interested in hosting a Foster Care Awareness Night at their church because they were spurred on to consider foster care after watching another Project 1.27 family, the Wolgemuths. As Julie describes it, “Seeing foster care on display in actual people’s lives helped me think that maybe we could do that.” After talking to husband, Jonathan, the couple attended a Project 1.27 Info Night in 2017. They walked away wishing they hadn’t heard any of the information because it meant they couldn’t turn away. “We just took one class at a time, one step at a time. It took us a year, but we trusted God knew what he was doing. We were set up to bring in a kid, help a family in need.” Since becoming certified, Jon and Julie have adopted their first placement and supported their second placement’s move to live with her aunt in another state.  September is a month to recognize all kinship providers who stepped into an important gap to care for children experiencing abuse and neglect. In circumstances where a child is not able to safely remain with their parent, kinship providers are the first choice for placement to minimize the trauma of removal. Kinship care is defined as a relative or non-relative adult with an existing bond to the child, who agrees to provide care to the child during a dependency and neglect case. This allows children to preserve family and community connections, making kinship providers an invaluable resource. While kinship care is a gift to helping children cope with the challenges of removal and maintain a sense of familiarity, it also can be a difficult situation for families to be in. Kinship providers often find themselves in the middle, torn between a system working to protect the child who has been harmed, and preserving their relationship with the family member responsible for the abuse. Kinship families may also find their own life plans, safety, or privacy interrupted; or be financially strained in providing for another child. In honor of celebrating the hard work of kinship parents with consideration to the many complexities it presents, below are some ways to show your family love and support this month and always.
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